Mother-Daughter Retreat in Southern France: 

July 26-August 2, 2019  

An uplifting mother-daughter retreat exploring the stunning Occitania region of southern France. Disconnect from stress, deadlines and social media. Connect with each other in a pristine setting. Refresh and renew your body, mind, heart and soul.

Hosted by Dr. Patti Ashley, Authenticity Architect,
and her two daughters,
Elizabeth Ashley Herman and Laura Ella Ashley

Are you a strong, heart-centered woman who has spent much of your life nurturing others? Do you sometimes feel like you need space to breathe, rest, renew and deepen your relationships with yourself and others? Do you crave more authentic mother-daughter connection, laughter and joy?

Join us in breathtaking Southern France, for a refreshing personal retreat experience designed to help mothers and daughters bring more laughter, fun, curiosity and wonder into their lives.

This retreat is for you if

  • You are ready for a deeper, more meaningful relationship with your mother/daughter(s).
  • You can’t remember the last time you did something just for YOU!!!
  • You feel like your daughter still needs you, but you are afraid of being too pushy.
  • You want to talk to your mom about things that are meaningful to you.
  • You want to better listen to each other.
  • There are so many distractions and demands that you have no time to be still and mindful of the present moment.
  • You are exhausted from your “to-do” list and are deeply craving rest and rejuvenation.
  • You are open to trying new things and discovering more joy in everyday life.
  • Since your daughter has had children, your relationship has become more distant and you miss spending time with each other.
  • You are excited about experiencing the adventure and energy of Southern France!
  • You want to invest in meaningful experiences and the relationships that matter most.





Meet Your Retreat Guides

Note the Early Bird Savings!

EARLY BIRD (Save $350!) :: Register through January 15, 2019 :: $2,135

Register January 16-April 1, 2019 :: $2,493

Register April 2-May 1, 2019 :: $2,700


Rough Draft of Itinerary

Friday, July 26

Arrive at Toulouse airport by 2 p.m. for transport to Les Labadous Retreat Center. Unpack, unwind, and rest. Then gather for group introductions and a relaxing, yummy dinner.


Saturday, July 27

Ease into the retreat with group and individual time on the beautiful property overlooking the Pyrenees. Take a short walk together or alone to the enigmatic hilltop village of Rennes le Chateau, which played an important part in the mysteries revealed in Holy Blood, Holy Grail, a book that inspired Dan Brown to write The Da Vinci Code. You can have lunch on your own at one of the restaurants there. Dinner and evening group time at Les Labadous Retreat Center.

Sunday, July 28

In the morning we visit the traditional Occitan market in Esperaza, where we can pick up snacks, gifts, etc. while enjoying the French market experience: click here. We will have lunch in Couiza at Le Carnotzet. Then we return to Les Labadous Retreat Center for individual and group time before and after another delicious dinner.

Monday, July 29

We venture to the biggest fortified medieval city in Europe: Carcassonne, a well-known historical site. After a guided tour that will take you back 2000 years (!) in time, we will have lunch in the oldest inn in town. There will be time for individual explorations and shopping. Then we return to Les Labadous Retreat Center for dinner and individual and group time that evening.

Tuesday, July 30

We drive to St. Paul de Fenouillet for lunch in a typical French square underneath the sycamore trees. In the afternoon we will hike (20 minutes, wear good shoes) to the Hermitage of St. Antoine de Galamus, which is spectacularly situated halfway up a gorge. Here we will hear the stories of troubadours, Cathars, Templars and Franciscan monks, and Anneke (our guide) will sing the Franciscan version of the Lord’s Prayer in Aramaic. In the late afternoon we return to Les Labadous Retreat Center for dinner, followed by individual and group time.

Wednesday, July 31

This morning we will explore historic Puivert Castle (hike: 30 minutes, wear good shoes), where you will hear the stories of the troubadours and the Cathars. Afterwards we will have lunch nearby and return to Les Labadous Retreat Center for dinner and individual and group time that evening.

Thursday, August 1

We spend our last day at the gorgeous, Mediterranean Sea town of Collioure, known for its colourful houses, artisan shops and massive medieval harbour fort. Lunch and exploring on your own. We return to Les Labadous Retreat Center for dinner and individual and group time that evening.

Friday August 2

Closing breakfast with group. Transport to Toulouse airport.

Want to Extend Your Stay? and Other Travel Tips

If you want to extend your stay, now is the time to talk to me about possible options and people to help you set up what you would like to do. I will be staying in the area for a few weeks, and I’m happy to support individuals as needed. This is a busy season in the area, so reservations should be made as soon as possible. Les Labadous Retreat Center is booked already that week, so it will not be an option for you.

One suggested location where you might extend your stay is Le Espinet: Click here.

You can make your own reservations, and/or sign up for spa treatments and other activities at Vayamundo Quillan: Click here.  Want to see this site in English? Click here.

Our tour guides Anneke Koremans and Peter van Deursen are are also available to assist you with any further adventures or excursions you may be interested in: Click here. Anneke and Peter also have suggestions on their website here.

Rental cars can be picked up at Toulouse airport after dropping off the others who are flying out on this last structured day.


If I have more than one daughter, can they all come?

Yes! The rooms are double occupancy, so if you have more than one daughter joining you, contact us and we can help make agreeable arrangements.

My daughter isn’t available. Can I still register?

We’re sorry we’ll miss her! At this time, we’d love to put your name on the waiting list and reach back out in August if any spaces open up.